Over the years of helping couples plan a successful timeline, I realized that there were always the same questions and a lot of the same concerns about time. Especially the early parts of the day. So I wrote these pages as a helping hand to reference in your planning process. I got married in 2014 and was so thankful that I had been to so many weddings- it really helped in our planning. But I realize that you don’t go to 45 weddings a year! So this is meant as a helpful guide, from my point of view, as your photographer. It is not meant to be a bible. Just a guide.
What I love about all of my clients, is that everyone’s approach is different. What matters the most to some of you is not even a concern for others. So please take what you can use and disregard the rest. And as always, if you have any other questions, please don’t hesitate to reach out and ask!
Below you will find my helpful tips for different parts of the day, sample timelines, why I feel like an Unplugged Ceremony is a really big deal and it’s probably not why you think. You will also find my list of recommended vendors!! These are all folks that made a very good impression on me when I worked with them and also everyone we used for our own wedding.
Make sure you save this link somewhere you can easily find it so that you may reference it in the future. Have a great engagement, an awesome time planning and I will see you soon!
Getting ready images are a perfect way to start the narrative of your wedding day. So many really great moments are happening and good lighting can help capture them in a more elegant way. I highly recommend looking at renting out homes on AirBNB or getting ready at cozy bed and breakfasts instead of stuffy hotel rooms (which unfortunately are usually full of no-smoking signs, sprinklers, and questionable chairs and carpet choices).
I recommend coverage to start at least 2 hours before you see each other, 3 hours if there is travel time to the ceremony. If there are any details that are special to you and you would like them photographed, it is really helpful to have them all in one place for me when I arrive. There will be a space on the Day of Questionnaire to tell me about them. I love how sacred and special this part of the day is...
When the dress shop packs up your dress, they usually hang it on a stiff wire hanger, covered in cardboard with lots of padding to help it keep in shape. While this is great in the zipper bag, it’s not so great for pictures. Think about bringing a wooden hanger, a fancy scroll hanger, or some cool vintage number from an antique store. Anything but a wire or plastic hanger!
While you are having your hair and makeup done, window light is our best friend and creates amazing drama even in cluttered rooms. When your Makeup artist arrives, ask her to set up next to a window and turn all the overhead lights off. There is a big difference between how you will see yourself when you’re under yellow fluorescent lights (eeewww) as opposed to natural window light. Your makeup will look it's best and so will your pictures- it's a win win!!
If you would like coverage of the guys getting ready, it is best that you are in the same location or at least very close. And guys, I know you are all usually crammed into a hotel room but an AirBnB is a great choice for you as well. Often times you can find them big enough for the entire Wedding Party to be together. If you would like full coverage of the guys AND the girls getting ready, I suggest upgrading to a 2nd shooter or having me start early enough in the day so that I can cover both.
The First Look is a trend of the last decade that has really taken off. It was developed by one the world's leading wedding photographers as a way to, essentially, get more hours in the day. By seeing each other before your ceremony, it allows us more, stress-free time to make amazing portraits of the two of you, without the constraints of time or the family onlookers, the Uncle Bob’s with their cameras and the rush to make it through Cocktail Hour.
Here's my ideal timeline with a First Look (actual time of day is just for reference):
1:00- Sam arrives to Bride location
2:45- Bride starts getting dressed
3:15- Solo Bridal Portraits
3:30- First Look into mini portrait session
4:00- Wedding Party Pictures
4:20- Family Pictures (this will vary greatly based on the size of your immediate families)
5:00- Done with pictures- get hidden away as guests start to arrive
6:00- Ceremony ends, mini 10-15 minute portrait session as husband and wife! while guests head to Cocktail Hour
6:15-7:00 Enjoy your Cocktail Hour
Even though I think doing a First Look can be very advantageous, I will never pressure you into it. I will only be real about how much time I need for everything. So here are two examples of what a timeline looks like without a First Look. Keep in mind, there are a lot of factors that can alter this such as, if the B + G are getting ready in the same location or if there is distance between. Another large factor is if you have a Second Photographer or not. Ok, here are two samples:
SAMPLE ONE (this is my ideal version):
1:00- Sam arrives
2:45- Bride starts getting dressed
3:15- Bride Portraits
3:40- Pictures of Bride with her Bridesmaids
4:00- Pictures of Bride with her immediate family
4:30- Pictures of Groom with his Groomsmen
4:45- Pictures of Groom with his Immediate Family
6:00- Co-ed Wedding Party Pictures + Bride and Groom with each others Family
6:30- Bride + Groom Pictures
6:45- Sam takes off for reception to get set up for Intros and First Dance, take reception detail shots
SAMPLE TWO (this only works if Ceremony and Party are in same location:
2:30- Sam arrives
4:00- Bride starts getting dressed
4:30- Bride Portraits + possibly some with girls
5:00- Get hidden away or travel to ceremony location
6:00- Ceremony over- go right into Family Pictures - must be small groupings to maximize time
6:20- Wedding Party Pictures
6:35- Bride + Groom Portraits
6:45- Sam heads to reception to get set up for Intros and First Dance, take reception detail shots
7:00- Guests arrive at reception
8:00- Head out for last light portraits if possible
This option is obviously the most stressful. It takes a lot of cooperation from your families and wedding parties to be on point right after the ceremony.
With this option I always try to sneak you out again for a few minutes of last light pictures but this is obviously hinged on time of year, reception timeline, weather, etc.
I will most likely cry at some point during your ceremony. Don't worry, nothing's broken. :)
This is a hot topic these days. If you type the letters “unp” into Pinterest, the UnPlugged Ceremony pops up immediately. In this new world of fingertip technology, social media, and instant gratification, we have a world of iPhoneographers and Uncle Bob’s. Now I know you have no idea who Uncle Bob is so let me explain. Uncle Bob is what professional wedding photographers call the guy or gal at every wedding who brings their camera along and thinks that it is their job to document everything for you, regardless of how much you have vested in your wedding photographer. It is usually a well meaning relative, who shoots on auto, with their pop up flash on the entire time because they don’t know any better. Now while it is our job to work around them during the reception, the ceremony is a different story.
There is only one aisle.
There is one way in, and one way out.
There is only one time you will walk down it.
It only takes about ten seconds.
The last two images above break my heart. This is a proud Father walking his gorgeous daughter down the aisle on her wedding day. A walk that lasts about 10-15 seconds. And there is Uncle Bob with his point and shoot camera, in the isle, blocking the view of the photographer, but of her fiance and their families in the front row. And the worst part is, the Bride will probably never see that picture. Not to mention everyone else with their phones held up in the air, so that any shot that we take, has your friends more interested in their phone picture than in you coming down the aisle. You know what happens next? They all spend the next several minutes uploading those images to facebook and instagram, tagging you, and showing the world your ceremony before it’s even started. That is a moment that we can never get back. That is a moment that you should have professionally documented in the most beautiful way possible.
I believe the ceremony is sacred. It’s why we are all there in the first place. It’s the moment that you become husband and wife but it seems that these days everyone wants to rush through it, ignore it, and just get to the party. Now we all know that the party is the most fun, but by asking your guests to be present during this sacred time, and not staring into their phones and camera, it allows several beautiful things to happen. First, when you look out at your honored guests, every face meets your gaze. Second, when we pull back for a gorgeous wide shot of your entire ceremony, there aren’t phones and cameras in the air, spoiling the sacred moments that we are documenting. Third, without people in the isle, we always get the shot and I am pretty confident that our image is going to be better than theirs. I’m not saying that to be mean, but you wouldn’t have paid me to be there if Uncle Bob could do the same job.
So now the big question is how do you make an unplugged ceremony happen? Well we believe the best approach is in three’s. First, put it in your wedding invites or programs. Add a special card asking your guests to refrain from taking any pictures during the ceremony. Let them know that we will be happy to share all of ours! Second, put a large sign in the ceremony space, right up front where the officiant stands because that is where all eyes are while they wait for the start of the ceremony. Pinterest has a lot of clever examples of gorgeous signs.
Third, have your officiant announce it to your guest BEFORE anyone ever walks down the aisle. This one is the most successful part. Make sure our officiant really understands that this is important to you and write down exactly what you want them to say. Remember, there is no do-over.
This is a great article about many other reasons to have an unplugged ceremony!
And here we are. This is the part of the day that I look forward to the most. Making gorgeous portraits for my couples. Making gorgeous portraits for my couples, hopefully without the stress of time restraints. Getting creative. Playing with light. Creating art for you while also creating timeless, classic portraits.
This takes time. I would love to have one hour total with you for portraits. My ideal time would be in the 2-3 hours before sunset. I think it works really well to split up the portrait session into a few different parts of the day. 20 minutes after the First Look, 20 minutes after the ceremony and 10 minutes during the salad course when the sun is setting. I am open to non-traditional timelines and crazy ideas! My goal is to make sure you have amazing portraits for your future children and families to cherish and that takes some time to do- but it doesn't have to all be at the SAME time. Let's think of some great ways to make that happen!
Owner- Tatiana Jones
Facebook - www.facebook.com/whimsyweddingsandevents
Email - email@example.com
**Tatiana was our Wedding Weekend Event Coordinator
and was SUCH a big help. We love her and her team!
She is also available as just the Day Of Coordinator.
HAIR BY ANNALIESE - Fishkill, NY
Onsite Hair + Makeup Team
FB - www.facebook.com/pages/Annaliese-Co-Bridal-Hair-Makeup-Artistry
Email - firstname.lastname@example.org
**These girls are amazing! They are great with a schedule
and have a ton of variety but they book up fast!! Like 18 months to 2 years in advance.
BRIDAL BY ALEXANDRIA
Onsite Hair and Makeup Team
** I have worked with Alexandria, Katie + Alanna and they are all so wonderful, on time and really talented.
*** If you want a band, stop right here and get in touch with these guys immediately. They blew me away- SO SO good. Seriously. Not cheesy, crowd ramping, amazing vocals, good MC-ing of toasts and dances, really kind + professional. SO SO good. Not your typical wedding band at all, but parents and friends both dancing hard at the same time!
THE NEW YORK PLAYERS
Elegant + fun Full Band with 3 singers, horn section and complete with Master of Ceremony
Phone: (518) 482.8252
Ali Gruber spins nothing but vinyl from the 50 thru the 80’s- she’s the real deal.
**Ali was the DJ at our wedding. She uses record and turntables and her knowledge of music is underground and right on.
Dave Leonard is wonderful. He has been a DJ at Radio Woodstock for years and really know his stuff. Like Ali, he is the real deal. No big lights, games, or TV's, just an amazing blend of old and new with song choices that keep your party going! There is no one better than him, but he does have a great team if he's not available.
BUDS OF BROOKLYN
Brooklyn, NY but they service all over NY
32 E Market St, Rhinebeck, NY 12572
Phone: (845) 876-6999
**I can not say enough nice things about this shop! They came to the rescue for me 48 hours before my wedding and made my dress better than ever!
I know this is such a seemingly random thing to have on here but I NEED to tell you about this ladies. I shoot 45 weddings a year and our Bridal Parties average about 5 Bridesmaids for each Bride. Let me do the math for you- that's 270 women per year and if we add in the Mothers that's 360 women each year that I witness who loathe their Shapewear under their dresses. And I have seen it ALL! 3 girls in the bathroom pulling up, taping, saftey pinning each others shapewear just to try to get it to stay up. But we all know, once your dress is on and that puppy rolls down, you're screwed.
So I am introducing you to Hooked Up Shapewear. No more Spanx ladies. And Hooked Up is SUPER soft and breathable. You'll LOVE it!
You're welcome. Tell your friends! Tell your Mothers!
BLUE MOUNTAIN BISTRO TO GO
Mary Anne Erickson
948 Rt 28, Kingston, NY 12401
**Mary Anne and her Chef husband Richard are SO fantastic. They catered our wedding and we did not make it easy on them! The brought an entire, functioning kitchen to our empty venue site and rocked it.
10 IBM Rd. Poughkeepsie, NY 12601
Phone: (845) 214-0300
Mike and his team are fantastic. I have seen them do wonderful buffets and beautiful sit down dinners. He really goes above and beyond to make sure your wedding is beautiful. His staff is fantastic and you can tell that they all want to be there.
If you didn't book a Connection Session but are thinking about adding it, head over here to the Connection Session Packet to learn more about it! You can decide at any time before your wedding to add it on, keeping in mind that the most popular time slots book up months in advance, like Spring and Late Summer/Early Fall.
If you chose a Collection with a Connection Session, start thinking about what time of year you would like to book your session. Space fills up quickly so the sooner you lock in a date, the better! If you have any questions about your session, head over to the Connection Session Packet to learn more about it.
3 months before your wedding you will receive my Wedding Day Timeline Questionnaire but in the meantime, please know that I am always here to help.
I realize that you have never done this before so let's chat whenever you feel the need or have some questions.
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I am in the office Monday - Thursday (most of the time) from 9:30-4:30 and can be reached by email.
The rest of the time I'm a mom. Or a rockstar. You know, either one.... ;)
I look forward to getting to know you and making you awesome images.
xo sam june*